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About the crash.  / AL
These are about the crash. They were found by Brian and sent to me. I am adding them here so that others can read thought them too.


  6 Americans Missing.pdf
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  CNN.com - 'No survivors' as lost plane found - Nov 30, 2004.pdf
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  CNN.com - U.S.forces look for lost plane - Nov 30, 2004.pdf
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  FOXNews.com - U.S. & World - Military Plane Goes Missing Over Afghanistan.pdf
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  FOXNews.com - U.S. & World - Searchers Find Wreckage of U.S. Plane in Afghanistan.pdf
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  Reuters Plane Down.pdf
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brian_green@mac.com / Brian Green (Cousin)
Writing about Harley is something that isn't the easiest for me. It was me that started contacting people I knew in the Afghanistan area as soon as I heard that he was missing. I got word before any contact was made by the Army and I did one of the hardest things any person had to do. I called my mom while she was working at her school and told her the bad news. She completely broke down while we were on the phone. I told her that she had to get over to Aunt Chris's and tell her. I knew as horrible the news was, that it would be better coming from family than coming from an Army representative she didn't know. Harley had written me a few times while he was stationed over there and had been asking me advice on a few issues he was dealing with. I liked being able to help him out and even though he'd grown up and was in the military, to me, he was always the kid I used to run through the forest with going "snape hunting" or playing tag in the dark. To have him leave us so soon was a shock to the entire family and one that is always in the back of my mind as I work here in Kuwait as a contractor with the US Army. He'll never be forgotten.
In loving memory  / Christine Miller (Mother)
Thank you all who have written on this site and who have lit a candle. To those who have lost someone my prayers go out to you. Harley would have been twenty three on May 5,2006. The 21 years, 6 months, and 22 days I was givin with him in my life was a blessing that I thank God for daily. They were far to short, but I take comfort in knowing that he is in Heaven with our dear Lord and I will get to see him again. 
I love you my son, I will never forget you.
Love Always and forever, Mom
www.IraqWarHeroes.or--g I will not forget.  / Q. Madp (None)
Thank you for your service. It's my mission to make sure people will remember you. Q Don't Let the memory Of them Drift Away
Harley a great American!!  / Kevin Knight (Fellow soldier )

     I remember the very first time I met Harley in the Hangar.  I walked up to introduce myself to him and he immediately snapped to the position of parade rest so fast and with such enthusiasm that it scared me.  I told him to relax because I just wanted to introduce myself and he smiled big and said “All freaking Cav, sir”.  I have spent many nights working with Harley and getting to know him, from his all night rave music in the crew chief office to his sleeping in the hangar waiting for the aircraft to land from a mission.  I also met, through stories, Sarah, his wife and Korey, his son.  I remember thinking how awesome it was to see his love and pride in his family. 

     Harley never allowed himself to get wrapped up in the complaining process that many of us find ourselves doing.  He would of course let his opinion be known, but always in a professional manner and would always continue the mission at hand while stating “ALL FREAKING CAV”.  Of course if you knew Harley you know that on occasion he used a different adjective than I just used. 

     Harley grew up in the face of adversity and never allowed that adversity to leave him feeling sorry for himself.  Harley joined a carnival as a teenager and could always get the troop laughing by telling stories of his experiences.  Of course as all good cavalrymen do the rest of the Troop would poke fun at Harley about bearded ladies and midgets.  Harley would then explain to us how stupid we were because bearded ladies and midgets were in the circus not the carnival, like we were supposed to know that. 

     Harley was always striving to better himself.  He was constantly reading self-improvement books like “How to earn 10,000 a month for the rest of your life”, hoping to better provide for his family.  Harley was also in the process of submitting a Warrant Officer packet, hoping one day to achieve the title of Warrant Officer and Aviator, which, on occasion many of us take for granted.  

     Harley Miller came to this unit and constantly strived to be the best.  He never liked being compared to other soldiers, only the standard.  Harley always tried to achieve the standard and I, as well as those who knew him, would say on most occasions the standard needed to keep up with Harley, not the other way around.  Of course like all of us sitting here today he would on occasion try to get away with the “little” things.  I remember when he was caught driving a Humvee without a Kevlar by our First Sergeant who, just hours earlier had spoke about the importance of being in the correct uniform.  Later that night, I saw him sitting at his bunk reading a book wearing his Kevlar.   You see I had to pass his bunk every night to get to mine.  When I asked him why he was wearing it he simply smiled and said that he had made a mistake and was being reminded how important it was to wear the appropriate uniform even if it appeared that no one was watching.  I remember thinking as I walked away that he had not called it a punishment and had not complained that he was being treated unfairly by the First Sergeant. 

     Harley prided himself more than any crew chief I have ever met on his ability to take care of his aircraft.  One time before a flight one of our pilots went to another crew chief to ask them to fix something on his aircraft.  It was something small and relatively insignificant like a tie strap or a weapons pylon or the windows needed to be wiped off.  However, later that night Harley approached that pilot, visibly upset, and asked why he had not found him to fix his aircraft.  He continued to say that if in the future something was wrong with his aircraft, could he please let him know because it was his responsibility to fix it, no one else’s.  Personally, I will never forget the first time I flew aircraft 96-00030, as Harley Miller’s aircraft.  When I went to the aircraft there was 2 bottles of water in each seat along with a breakfast bar and a muffin.  When I asked him who these were for he looked at me like I was crazy, as if this was the standard, and replied “Sir, those are for you and the other pilot, please be safe, and see you when you return.”  Of course, like any good Warrant Officer I told him yes, that was the standard but next time could I get a diet coke.  Of course it is not the standard and is just another example of how prideful Harley was of his aircraft and those who flew it.

     I could stand up here and list occasion after occasion in which Harley has had a positive impact on the people that knew him.  Instead I would like to read you an excerpt from an essay that Harley was preparing for Major General Olsen’s essay contest on Commitment.  Harley’s words are as follows:

True commitment to something requires integrity, honesty, and good moral fiber.  It isn’t easy.  If commitment were easy than the rewards could not possibly be so great.  I am rewarded every day for the commitment I have for the things that are the most important to me.  My God has blessed me for my commitment to him.  My country has rewarded me with the unparalleled freedom that many people are not fortunate enough to receive.  I have a beautiful wife and son waiting at home for me because I am committed to them and I am rewarded throughout my life for my commitment to maintaining my values.  If I had to sum up what commitment means to me in one sentence it would read as follows “Commitment is the courage that pushes us to drive on in the face of adversity and defeat.”

     I believe with all my heart that if Harley were here right now he would not understand our sorrow.  He died being committed to his God, Committed to his country, Committed to his values, and most importantly committed to his wife Sarah and his son Korey.  Harley was very proud of what he was doing and I am sure he would ask us all to attempt to live by his definition of commitment and would sign off with a loud and thunderous “ALL Freaking CAV”.

CHAIN OF COMFORT  / SELMA FLYNN (POMC) BOBBO.MEMORY-OF.COM (friend)
PLEASE REMEMBER NOV 1ST IS CHAIN OF COMFORT PLEASE JOIN US LITE A CANDLE ON YOUR LOVE ONE SITE PASS IT ON TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS IT WILL BE ALL DAY SO WE CAN PRAY FOR OUR SWEET ANGEL THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.
TO BRING YOU SPECIAL COMFORT  / SELMA FLYNN (NONE)
WHEN WE LOSE THE ONES WE LOVE ITS AS IF WE LOSE A PART OF OURSELVES AND WE FEEL BEWILDERED AND LONELY....AND WE CANNOT BEGIN TO SEE HOW THE DARK CLOUDS OF SORROW WILL EVER LIFT,BUT BE ASSURED,THAT AS SUNSHINE FOLLOWS SHOWERS,HAPPLER MEMORIES WILL BREAK THROUGH AND HELP YOU TOWARD BRIGHTER DAYS REST IN PEACE SWEET ANGEL MAY GOD BLESS YOU PLEASE FEEL FREE TO VISIT MY SONS SITE AT www.bobbo.memory-of.com
God Bless Harley  / Sherry Kimbler (None)
As Harley's Mom, you must be so proud of him.  He is a very handsome young man.  His wife and child are beautiful also.  My heart reaks for his family and loved ones.  I always wish I had some magic words to make a parent's grief a little lighter.  I admire Harley for serving his country and I would like to thank his parents, wife and child.  Too many kids these days get involved in drugs and crime.  Harley obviously had a good head on his shoulders and knew where he wanted to go in life.  To lose him is a tragedy.  This site is a great idea so that one day his child will look at it and understand even more why Daddy is so special.  I will keep you all in my prayers.  God Bless you all and thank you once again for raising such a brave and honorable young man.
Thinking of You on Memorial Day  / Mikhale Rogers (Fellow Soldier )  Read >>
Thinking of You on Memorial Day  / Mikhale Rogers (Fellow Soldier )

Hey Harley,

Our sons turn six this year. On thier way into elementary school. This Memorial Day I think not only of you, the Chief, and SCO, but also of your families.  They sacrificed fathers, husbands, brothers, and sons the day you men pulled the ticket. I carry you guys heavy on my heart today. I am back at home and honor your memory with the deepest reverence. See you at Fiddler's Green my friend. Have a cold one waiting for me.

-CPL Mikhale Rogers

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To Harley's son and Family  / Mikhale Rogers (Fellow Soldier )  Read >>
To Harley's son and Family  / Mikhale Rogers (Fellow Soldier )
I deployed with Harley to Afghanistan. Harley welcomed me to the Cav without question. Always helpful and courteous, the guy always had a coy remark to lighten the dullest moments. 
We are the same age and have boys also of the same age. We both left our wives back home and would speak of them often. All of the soldiers who served with him are honored. His memory is not that of someone who has gone; it is something very much alive and lives in the hearts of all of us who knew him. Thank you Harley. Close
Fred the Cat  / Dee Wanker (friend)  Read >>
Fred the Cat  / Dee Wanker (friend)

Harley was older than my son Brandon by only two months.  Chris and I met in college in 1989, sharing alot we not just became good friend's our son's did also.

Brandon always loved going to visit Harley as he knew that an adventure generally awaited him.  It was always more fun than home because Harley had the cool tools, the yard and was just his buddy.  There was always something to make, take apart and put back together, build or just do what ever buddies do.

This one cloudy, rainy Saturday in late fall 1992, Brandon and I went to visit.  Little did I know that day that we would not be leaving just the two of us or how determined Harley could be.  The boys had been outside and Harley came in and started to tell me about some kittens that were sort of neighborhood strays.  He continued to tell me that a couple of the neighborhood bullies had at one time put these kittens in plastic bags and were playing catch with them.  How one of the kittens in the litter had already died and please, please Dee could you take one of them home.

I told him "no that I had a cat already."  He tried the big eyes and the smile, to no avail.  He tried more pleading, to no avail.  The sad eyes again.  I kept telling him "NO Harley!"  Chris in the mean time was just sitting there smiling.  The boys wandered off and thinking it was the end of it, continued visiting.  

Pretty soon in the boys come Harley with a big smile and his eyes dancing knowing that victory was at hand.  He had these two little kittens in his hands.  I closed my eyes and told him to get away from me and of course Harley on a mission, that was not going to stop him.  He held these little kittens in his hands and kept trying to make me look at them.  I kept saying "Harley, if I see them I will take one home, now go away!"   By this time we are all laughing and Harley knew he had won.  Believe me, his eyes just sparkled when he knew the victory was his.

Well, needless to say we have had Fred the Cat since 1992, he is as stuborn as Harley on a mission.  But, we love Fred the Cat and I so often think of Harley on that cloudy rainy day with little kittens in his hand doing what was just normal, everyday Harley.

Brandon who now serves on the USCGC Alex Haley out of Kodiak, Ak. has a beautiful tatoo of a cross on his left shoulder another friend drew because his God and his Hero friend Harley cover his back...........we miss you so friend.

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